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The Daily Insight

What do I write for marital status?

Author

John Thompson

Published Mar 03, 2026

Consider the following marital statuses:

  1. Single.
  2. Married.
  3. Divorced.
  4. Separated.
  5. Widowed.

How long does it take to change marital status after divorce?

three months
Take your divorce certificate to Home Affairs and ask them to amend your marital status. This normally takes three months to change. A woman may revert to her maiden surname or a prior surname she legally bore, or may join her surname with that of her ex-husband’s as a double-barrelled surname.

Can I revert to my maiden name before divorce?

Can I change back to my maiden name before my divorce has been finalised? The simple answer is, Yes. If you are going through a divorce or have completed it, but do not want to revert to use of your maiden name, and would rather change your name to something new, you will need a Deed Poll.

Does your surname change after divorce?

Legally speaking, it doesn’t make any difference whether you use your divorce documents or a deed poll to change your name. Either way, it’s not the document itself that changes your name, it’s just evidence of the fact that your name’s been changed — legally, your name is changed by usage.

Is it difficult to go through a divorce?

Divorce is difficult. No matter how common, it is one of the most challenging of life’s experiences. It’s not just your marital status that changes — your entire life shifts.

What happens to your life when you get a divorce?

Divorce doesn’t just mean that the ring comes off your finger, and you have to check the “divorced” box in government documents. Life does not simply revert to how it was before you got married. In my experience, people looked at me differently, with a “poor you” smile, along with a “you’ll make it” jovial punch in the arm.

What are the realities of divorce for women?

When divorce is personal, everything you’ve read, heard or seen takes on a new angle. Divorce for me was an alien concept, and the realities that came with it were not something I was prepared for. I had to re-identify myself, my role as a person, a woman, and a mother. 1) You will mourn — it is a huge loss.

What happens if a state does not recognize common law marriage?

However, all of the states that do not permit common law marriage will recognize it if it was contracted in a state that allows it. Some states that previously recognized common law marriage do not any longer. In those states, the common law marriage is still recognized if it was enacted prior to a certain date.